Ok that sounds like an interesting choice. Two different love solutions. Sort of a take your pick deal. But it has a hidden risk, either choice has a negative outcome for her. That is a tough choice, love me or love him. Can you actually be happy over the long term, like until death do we part. I don’t think I could do it. I’d want only the two-way love for the rest of my life. What is preventing her from loving the man who already loves her. She would at least have more control of her destiny. To choose the man she now loves and risking the love she needs, because he may never love her back. My gut hurts thinking about that one.
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